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How to make friend with girl?

·         Alright so first things, you got to talk to her if you want to be friends with her otherwise how would you interact with her, yeah we’ve all heard the saying actions speak louder than words but my friend you have to talk. Start the conversation, that’s the most important part of being friends with someone. Interact, get to know her and converse.

·         Have a sense of humor; try to avoid the awkward silence while talking to someone. Tell jokes, making her laugh is the simplest way of making her like you. It will spark that friendship between you two but one thing to keep in mind is you’ve got to know when to stop. Someone you can be disrespectful without even knowing it, trust me I know. So be cautious about what you say.

·         In order to be a good friend, be valuable to her in the time of need. A good friend always helps another friend. This is just a simple way of raising your values in her eyes.

·         Always be there for her.  Let her know that you’re going to be there, that she can count on you, that you’re trustworthy, that she can trust you in her time of need. Girls tend to be friends with a person who helps her on matter what.

NI GUTE WABA INSHUTI N’UMUKOBWA? INAMA Z’URUKUNDO-TRUELOVE RWANDA

·         Ibintu bya mbere, ugomba kuganira n’umukobwa niba ushaka kuba inshuti ye, ikindi ni gute uzavugana na we, mwese muzi ko ibikorwa bivuga cyane kuruta amagambo gusa  no kuganira ugomba kuganira neza. Tangiza ikiganiro, n’igice cy’ingenzi cyane iyo ushaka kuba inshuti n’umuntu. Ganira, ugerageze kumenya uwo ari wo ndetse ukomeza kuganira mu bundi buryo.

·         Kora utuntu dusekeje, gerageza kwamagana kumara  umwanya ucecetse mu gihe uri kuvugana n’umukobwa. Tera urwenya, gutuma aseka ni inzira yoroshye ituma umukobwa agukunda. Gutuma aseka,bituma ubwo bushuti bwanyu bugumaho, ariko ikintu kimwe ugomba kumenya ni aho uragarikira. Kugira ngo utamwubahuka, ugomba kwirinda mu byo uvuga.

·         Kugira ngo ube inshuti nziza, ba uw’agaciro kuri we igihe agukeneye. Inshuti nziza ihora ifasha indi nshuti. Iyi ni inzira yoroshye yo kuzamura agaciro kawe mu maso y’umukobwa.

·         Igihe cyose ujye uboneka kubwe. Jya utuma amenya ko uri buze kubana nawe mu byo ari bukore, kugira ashobore ku kwizera, kugira ngo amenye ko uri umwizerwa, kugira ngo amenye ko yakwize igihe cyose agukeneye. Abakobwa bagerageza kuba inshuti n’umuntu ugerageza kubafasha batitaye ku kindi kintu.


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HOW TO MAKE FRIENDS WITH BOYS?

·         So the first step of any friendship is talking. You will and I don’t know how to make it clearer, you will need to talk to him. You can’t be friends with someone without talking. Don’t be too shy and strike up a conversation. You can start by saying hey, how are you?” see that’s not too hard, try it.

·         Focus on your common interests. Talk about things you have in common. Do things that you both like. For example, you both may have the same taste in movies or games.

·         Another good method of making friends with a guy is hanging out with him. Spending time together will help you guys to bond. For example, you can go to movies or other places you like. Another plus point of hanging out together is, you’ll get to know him better.

·         Be trustworthy and honest. Let him know that he can trust you and that you are reliable. Let him know that he can ask for help anytime he needs. You should also be honest being with him so know you’re not pretending or lying.

NI GUTE WAREMA INSHUTI Z’ABAHUNGU?

 

·         Intambwe ya mbere yo kurema ubushuti ubwo ari bwo bwose ni ukuganira. Icya mbere uba ukeneye kuganira n’umusore. Ntushobora kuba inshuti n’umuntu mutaganira. Ntukagire isoni ahubwo jya utangiza ikiganiro. Ushobora gutangira uti “amakuru yawe?” urabona ko ibyo bidakomeye cyane, bigerageze.

·         Ibande cyane kubyo muhuriyeho mwese. Ganira ku bintu mwese muziranyeho. Kora ibintu mwembi mukunda. Urugero, mushobora kuba mwembi mukunda filimi cyangwa imikino.

·         Ubundi buryo bwiza bwo kuba inshuti n’umusore ni ugusohokana na we. Kumarana igihe bizabafasha guhuza. Urugero, mushobora kujya kureba filimi cyagwa mukajya ahandi hantu mukunda. Ikindi kintu cyiza cyo gusohokana, bituma umumenya neza.

·         Ba umwizerwa ndetse n’inyangamugayo. Reka uwo musore amenye ko ashobora kukwizera ndetse ko uri uwo kwiringirwa. Tuma amenya ko ashobora kugusaba ubufasha igihe abukeneye. Ugomba na none kuba imfura mu gihe uri kumwe nawe, menya neza ko utari kwishushanya cyangwa kumubeshya.

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Ndashima ibyiza byo kuba ntashobora kwandikisha computer! Nagiye kwaka akazi kuri kaminuza ubwo nigaga mu mwaka wa mbere wa kaminuza, kandi kimwe mu bintu byari bikenewe byari kuba ufite ubumenyi bwo kwandikisha computer neza. Icyo gihe ntabwo nakabonye ndetse byarambabaje cyane. Ariko umunsi ukurikiyeho, namenye ko hari ahantu bari gutanga akazi mu isomero “library” ryari hafi. Naho nagiyeyo kugasaba maze ku bw’amahirwe barakampa. Aho niho nahuriye na Richard. Twarakoranye mu ishami rimwe imyaka myinshi ariko ntitwigeze tumenyana neza. Ingengabihe zacu zari zitandukanye bigatuma tutavugana cyane. Ibyo ntabwo ari byo wakwita “urukundo ku mboni ya mbere” byadutwaye igihe kirekire kugira ngo tubashe kumenyana ndetse tuza gusanga hari na byinshi duhuje. Nyuma y’amezi twabaye inshuti, nyuma y’umwaka kuri valentine day turabana (couple). Uyu mwaka mu mu kwa kabari 14, tuzizihiza imyaka 30 ishize turi kumwe! (iyi n’impano nziza ya valentine day kuri buri rwego rw’umubano wawe) muri urwo rugendo turi kumwe twabyaye abana babiri, twarafashanyaga mu bihe bikomeye, tugasangira ibyishimo ubuzima bwatuzaniraga. Richard ni inshuti yange ndetse aracyansetsa kugeza ubwo munda handiye ndetse amarira y’ibyishimo antemba mu maso. Mpora mubwira ko nishimiye kuba ntazi kwandikisha computer neza, kuko iyo nza kubimenya simba narahuye na we. Utuntu duto dushobora kwerekana itandukaniro.

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Thank goodness I can’t type well! I had applied for a job at the university when I was a freshman, and one of the requirements was having good typing skills. I didn’t get hired, and I was pretty bummed out about it. But the next day, I found out about a job opening at the local library. I applied and was hired the same day. It was there that I met Richard. We worked together in the same department for several years, but never really got to know each other well. Our schedules were different so we didn’t talk much. It was not what you would call “love at first sight.” It took several years for us to actually get to know each other and realize that we had quite a bit in common. Over several months in the fall of 1987, we became friends, and the on valentine’s day of 1988, we became a couple. This year on February 14, we will celebrate 30 years together! (These are the best Valentine’s Day gifts for every stage of your relationship.) During our journey together we have experienced the birth of our two children, supported each other through tough times, and shared the joys that life has brought us. Richard is my best friend and still makes me laugh until my stomach hurts and I have tears rolling down my face. I often tell him that I am so glad I can’t type, because if I did, I would never have met him. Little things can make a big difference.

Igihe uri gutereta bwa mbere

Intego yo gutera ku ncuro ya mbere ni uko uba ushaka kugerageza ngo ureba niba byakunda ko mubikora  ku ncuro ya kabiri. Ni iby’ingenzi ko utangira gutereta udohotse mu buryo bwose bushoboka, ndetse ntibishoka ko wahita ushaka uwo muntu uri gutereta.

 Ni gute ibyo ubyitaho rero?

Uburyo bwiza bwo kwishima, kudohoka, no kugira ikiganiro cyiza ntabwo ari ugutekereza kubyo uri kuganiraho mbere y’uko ubigeraho. Iyo ugiye gusura inshuti zawe, ntutekereza kubyo uri buganireho mbere yuko biba. Urabanza ukagerayo, uba utegereje ko mubonana, hanyuma ikiganiro kikagenda uko gishaka kuko muba mwizeye ko kiri bugende neza.

 Hanga icyizere

Iyo utereta ku nshuro ya mbere ntabwo uba ubyizeye. Uwo muntu ntabwo uba umuzi neza, ndetse ntabwo uba uzi ko bizahita byikora. Ni gute wabona icyizere bigatuma uganira mu buryo bwiza? Ijambo rya mbere ry’ingenzi ni “amatsiko”. Ugomba kwerekana ko ufitiye amatsiko uwo muri kuganira kandi mu buryo bwiza. Ese niki ufiteye amatsi k’uwo muri kugannira? Niki ukeneye kumenya?

 Kubaza ibibazo byinshi

Ugomba kwitonda mu kubaza ibibazo byinshi.  Ugomba guha umwanya uwo muri kuganira nawe abaze ibibazo. Muri ubu buryo ushobora kumenya byinshi bikwerekeye utarinze kubanzwa. Kuko uba ufite amatsiko, ni ukuvuga ko ingingo z’ikiganiro zirizana.

Amakuru agereranya ibyiyumviro ku mpande zombi

Ikindi kintu rusange kigoye ni uko wibanda ku bibazo by’ingenzi. Ukora akazi bwoko ki? Umaze igihe kingana iki uri wenyine? Ukunda gutembera? Ufite abavandimwe? Urabyumva… Gerageza ukomeza noneho ku bindi byinshi. Kubera iki undi muntu yanezezwa n’ibyo undi akunda? Ni  ibihe byiyumviro bitanga?

Umwanzuro

Garagaza ko ufite amatsiko by’ukuri kandi ukomeze ubaze ukuri ku ibintu. Mbere yuko ubimenya, hari ubwo bitinda ukabona  amasaha ari kugenda,  mbese wumva ushaka gutaha, ariko nanone ukumva utataha  utabyumvise. Kuko uri kuganira ikiganiro cyiza. Ndetse ari ubwa mbere uhuye nuwo wifuza kuba watereta…

Ubwoko bw’abasore

Gutereta ni inzira y’umuntu bwite. Uko uvugana n’abantu batandukanye, umenya mu by’ukuri uwo urukundo rwawe ruri kukwerecyezaho ndetse nuko wamutwara. Muri iyi nzira, birumvikana uzahura n’abasore benshi batandukanye, ushobora kuzajya uhora wibuka ku byinza cyangwa ku bibi. Ugomba kwitonda rero mu gihe uhuye n’umusore bwa mbere.

 Umusore ugire umujinya

Birashoboka ko buri wese azi umusore ugira umujinya aho aba cyangwa uburakari. Umunyamujinya agerageza kwerekana ko ari mwiza. Aba yumva ari umugabo. Ikindi aba azi abakobwa beza benshi ndetse aba akunda kwiyemera, aba ashaka kubaho mu munyenga.

 Umwihebe w’urukundo

Twese tuzi  umuntu uba ari umwihebe uko ameze. Nyuma yo kunanirwa urukundo rutandukanye, haba hasigaye kwiheba ndetse aba afite n’ubwoba bwo kubaho wenyine igihe cyose. Akora ibintu igihe cyose ashaka kongera gutangira umubano cyangwa urukundo bundi bushya.

Kudahangayika cyangwa kutagira inshingano

Nanone hari umusore udahangayikishwa n’urukundo. Ntamungenge agira ndetse nacyo biba bimubwiye, apfa kuba azi umuntu bashobora kwishimana. Nta bwoba aba afite: apfa kuba agukunda, aba yumva ari byiza.

Umuntu utunganye (ukunda ibyiza gusa)

Hari ubwo urukundo ruba nk’inkuru kuko ikintu cyose kikaba gitunganye ku musore. Umubiri we ukaba ari mwiza, umusatsi we uba ari mwiza, afite imodoka nziza, inzu nziza, ndetse n’akazi keza kamuha umushahara mwiza. Mu kiruhuko ajya ahantu heza, aba ashaka gukodesha restaurant yose nziza kubw’inshuti ze mbese aba yumva nta kibazo, kuko ku musore nk’uwo utunganye buri kimwe cye kigomba kuba gitunganye.

 Umusore ukunda Imikino

Imikino iba ari irari rye n’ubuzima bwe ndetse aba yumva no mu gihe ari gutereta yajya kwirebera imikino. Afatira icyo kurya ahantu heza yarangiza agakora imyitozo ngororamubiri. Iyo umutunguye ukamuha  nka “ice cream”, biramunezeza cyane kuko aba yumva atakoreye siporo ubusa.

Umucuruzi ukarishye

Tuvuye ku mwihebe, tugira n’undi muntu uba akarishye mu bucuruzi, mu gihe ari gutereta ahita abaza igihe bazabyarira abana, igihe bazagurira inzu, ni gihe bazakorera ubukwe nko mu bufaransa. Kandi ibyo byose aba yumva babikora mu mwaka umwe, kuko aba abona amasaha iri kugenda ndetse nta gihe cyo gutegereza..

Ntukagire ibintu intambara kuko wowe nk’umuntu witinya, byagenda neza nka wa muntu utunganye twavuze. Icyongeyeho kandi  ntushobora gushyira umuntu mu ikarito kandi ugomba kwibuka ko amasore nabo bahuzagurika iyo bari gutereta, ibyo rero bigatuma bakora ibintu bitandukanye nuko bari basanzwe bari.

Ese ni nde musore w’inzozi zawe?

Ni ryari umusore aba yiteguye kujya mu rukundo?

 Wakoze ikintu cyose

Ni ngombwa ko umusore ajya mu rukundo. Mbere yuko umusore agira uwo yemera ndetse agira amasezerano yemera, agomba kumenya niba yarakoze ikintu cyose yasahakaga mbera na mbere. Kumenya niba hari aho avuye kandi yaraciye mu bintu byose yashakaga, byatuma abona amahoro amuhuza n’urukundo ruhoraho.

 Kwihesha agaciro

Umugabo agomba kumva ko afite igisobanuro cyangwa agaciro ku wundi muntu. Igihe umugore akoze ibintu byose ku giti cye ndetse akagaragaza ko yihagije kandi akomeye,  igiteye ubwoba yerekana imbaraga za kigabo. Ashobora gutangira kwiyumva nk’aho ari umugabo mu rukundo. Agomba kumva ko ashobora kwita ku mugabo we. Kuko atari iby’ingenzi ko umugore aguma mu mbaraga za kigore gusa, ahubwo nawe agomba kwiyumvamo ubushobozi bwo kumva yagira icyo akora kubw’umugabo ari mu rugero. Niba afite ubwoba bwinshi, ntaba agishoboye kumwitaho no kumuha ubufasha akeneye.


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